Beth Ashley
Beth Ashley is a features writer and investigative journalist covering sex, relationships, and class. She likes dogs and whiskey. You can find her on Instagram(opens in a new tab) and Twitter(opens in a new tab).
By Beth Ashley
Cleavage sex: what is it and how do you do it?
You'll have likely spotted cleavage sex while watching porn.
By Beth Ashley
How to stop grieving over lost time after a breakup
People will come into our lives, and leave again, and each time we will learn something about ourselves.
By Beth Ashley
Your ultimate guide to breast play
Breast play is often overlooked in partnered sex. Here's how to change that.
By Beth Ashley
How the BDSM community is getting creative in the cost of living crisis
Here's how kinksters are cutting costs amid the crisis.
By Beth Ashley
Everything you need to know about making friends on a dating app
Swipe right for friendship.
By Beth Ashley
The ultimate guide to rimming
How to perform analingus (its official name) like a pro.
By Beth Ashley
Everything you need to know about the G-spot
While the G-spot is real, most of us have been misled when it comes to how it actually works.
By Beth Ashley
What is a Bartholin’s cyst and how is it treated?
"The Bartholin’s glands are normally pea-sized (about 1cm) and secrete fluid to lubricate the vagina during sex."
By Beth Ashley
STIs are rife over the holidays. Here’s how to keep yourself safe.
Ensure safe sex is part of your festive sex life, and keep yourself and those around you healthy.
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How the cost of living crisis is affecting sex workers' safety
"More people, especially women, will be pushed into sex work; and current sex workers will be facing worse financial hardship."
By Beth Ashley
What is No Nut November? Why abstaining from masturbation isn't healthy.
The No Nut Subreddit reveals disturbing posts of misogyny and intense public group shaming towards those who share their "failures".
By Beth Ashley
Why affairs are on the rise in the cost of living crisis
"This woman just started flirting and showed me the most affection I’d had in months, I was doing something terrible before I’d even realised."
By Beth Ashley
How to talk about kink with your vanilla partner
Couples of all kinds grow together sexually.
By Beth Ashley
What do intimate washes do to our vaginas?
"The vagina has an intricate ecosystem of microbes that keep the vagina clean and protected on its own."
By Beth Ashley
Why do I bleed after sex?
Most of us aren’t expecting to see blood, and when it does happen, it can be a bit alarming.
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Why do some people cry after sex?
"Sometimes it’s just an urge to cry. Sometimes it’s a bit of sniffling. Other times it’s full-on ugly crying."
By Beth Ashley
What is Shibari or Kinbaku? Everything you need to know about BDSM rope play.
Shibari is an art form with a rich history, and a fun, experimental present.
By Beth Ashley
Everything you need to know about wax play
Wax play stimulates so many of our senses, elevating the pleasure we usually get from sex to new heights.
By Beth Ashley
How to have sex using a strap-on
Everything you need to know in an honest and non-intimidating guide.
By Beth Ashley
Sex addiction isn't recognised by science. So, why are people still being diagnosed?
Sex addiction is not a condition that is recognised by any scientific or medical community.
By Beth Ashley
Can drunk sex ever be ethical?
People can’t give sexual consent while under the influence of alcohol, yet many of us have never done it sober.
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